Like other forms of abuse, spiritual abuse affects many different people groups spanning across all different religions. Spiritual abuse takes place when power is taken for granted, and the Good we are seeking is weaponized. It is an unhealthy misuse of power or authority. Abuses of the spirit often show up subtly, after trust has been built. Through manipulation, coercion, and control, the victim can find themselves confused and feeling guilty for having questions.
Many who have been exposed to spiritual abuse experience much of the following:
Loss of community
An unexpected faith crisis
A diminished sense of self,
Loss of trust in self, others, and God
Few resources to navigate healing
If this sounds like something you’ve experienced, or someone you may know, first and foremost - we are sorry.
And, we’re glad you’re here.
Spiritual abuse thrives in environments where:
Loyalty is demanded and leadership is feared
Leader(s) see themselves as higher, or more gifted
The powerful are protected and truth-tellers are silenced
Importance lies in protecting organization over individuals
An “Us vs. Them” culture is preached and lived out
Examples can include, and are not limited to:
Guilt around tithing and serving expectations
Over-spiritualizing language in an effort to manipulate, coerce, control
Authority’s word is the end all, be all
Isolation through emphasizing total dependence on spiritual community
Suggesting a partner stays in an abusive relationship because “God says”